THE KINDNESS OF STRANGERS
Posted: Friday, 04 April 2008 |
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I would have done exactly the same. The risk of losing a small amount of money isn't much compared to the benefit to everyone and their soul of giving someone the benefit of the doubt. Let us know if you get your money back! I'm sure you will. But it's best to do the right thing anyway.
Jill from EK
People think that we are nuts holidaying year in year out on a " pokey wee island ". Well you have just demonstrated one of many of the Coll " experiences" that we come to enjoy, good, old fashioned compassion.Good on you !
Gibby from Glasgow
Well, the children came running in this morning, all fresh faced and excited, "Look what's in the Oban Times" they cried. Yes, their story had been printed about the message in a bottle from an Argentinian Frigate. Sorry, this comment has nowt to do with my blog, I'll go now, I'm wittering on too much these days, like some demented old woman, right I'm orf. Ta-ra
Squidgy the Otter from Not on Page 3
Well done, the Otter! And I'll be very suprised if he doesn't repay you. This little SAGA reawakes my Honesty Box Blues ... must make it to Coll as I don't suppose the Honesty Box has an Internet bank a/c .. could you enquire?
Barney from Swithiod super Squidgey
However it pans out Squidgy, you are a winner. No doubt about it. This is what being human SHOULD be about. (Good grief, why would a cat say that??)
Flying Cat from furryhugs
That's very kind of you Squidgy, I've always thought very highly of you, and now that you have shown an act of extreme kindness to a young man, is there any chance you could see yer way to giving me a lend of 拢50, just until my luck changes, it's the Grand National tomorrow, and my wallet is empty. If 拢50 is too much, I'd possibly accept 拢40, but anything less, is no act of kindness. I'm really doing you a big favour, think how good you'll feel about yourself tomorrow, when I pick the winner, with your money. Cheery......
Tws from The Poor Hoose
How very kind of you. I hope that should my son ever be in that situation that he encounters someone as caring and generous as you.
alz from US
Oh what an atmosphere at Aintree. The Grand National tomorrow. I once went you know, years ago. It was freezing, but what a day. The jockeys in all their fine silks, the lovely Irish contingent, the guiness, Ah such memories. Wake up, wake up, TWS wants some money. Okay seeing as its you, its in the post to be first past the post. Back it each way, pick a horse with CLOUD in the name, and we will share the winnings. Thank you all for taking your time to comment. xxx
Squidgy the Otter from Backing a Winner
Me 'n' Marmers are wondering if we owe Tws royalties because (don't tell him) we have printed out a copy of one of his pomes and have it by the MagnifiMac.
FC&Marmers from copycats
Squidgy you are an example to us all!
IL from harris
Well done squidgy,however, 99.9% of the people of Coll would have done the same and not let the whole world know about it, its the kind of people they are.I know this for a fact, as I experienced it myself when my yacht was badly damaged in a storm in Coll a couple of years ago.
Sam "the yacht" from Crinan
Well, Saturday was Grand National Day, and I got an email from a dear friend, telling me to back Comply or Die, Did I comply? Not on your Nellie. Did it Win? eeeeerm yes. Ooops. Thank you all for your lovely comments, and Sam the Yacht, so very happy that you were helped by the people of Coll, and sorry for telling the world about kindness. I won't do it again. Honest.
Squidgy the Otter from Don't bet your life on it !!
Well, folks, we can comiserate with the generous otter that she didn't pick a winner, but I think its a bit of a relief to know that the otter is not #1 at everything she puts her paw to. In anaother context one would say she is human.
Barney from Swithiod a bit relieved
Oh help ma boab, that wee pussy'll get intae some bother if he diznae hand ower the "Nelson Eddies" tae Tws. Tak' this as a warning FC, we've goat yer paw-prints oan file here, so I'm watching ye....
PC Murdoch from The Polis Shop Stornoway
Okay, so I did not win on the gee-gees, but hey, listen up. Last week I announced to the world, yikes ! all about the Argentinian's message in a bottle. Well, today, we went back to the same beach and lo and behold we found another bottle. Only this time, there was no message in it, only PURE RED WINE. Yippeeeeeee. Now the cork is still intact, and it looks like a good bottle of Californian wine which I know (not from experience you understand) that they stock in the local Supermarket, that's the one on Tiree... so tonight whilst I am watching the long awaited demise of the evil Psychopath on Corrie (AKA David Platt), I will be "testing" the wine. I wonder if it will be okay. mmmm, Red wine gets me in a funny mood at the best of times. Better keep outta the way of PC Murdoch, he sounds a wee bitty strict, after poor puddycat like that. next he may come alooking for a squiffy otter.... Tee hee....xxx
Squidgy the Otter from You BET-ter believe this...
Good for you Squidgy. Interesting though how different people act in different ways, through personal idiosyncrasies or cultural determinants. I would have asked the person in to be fed (and I suspect many folks in the place I am going to in Southern Indiana would do the same). Then I would have given him the money for the meal on the boat (as well as some snacks and fruits). I would not have made it a loan or an advance. The unspecified understanding is that he would do the same later for someone else. I have been on the receiving end of so many kindnesses, in different countries, I would feel quite awful not to do a good turn from time to time.
mjc from NM,USA
silly me
didn't bet from theusualplace
One act of kindness ripples out I believe so good karma is bound to be headed your way Squidgy.
Carol from IBGood karma and all that Squidgy.HQ
mjc from NM, USA, have you tasted my cooking?? Have mercy on the poor boy !! Seriously though, I did think about inviting the young man in, but I was staining the fence and covered in creosote from head to foot. I do know what you are saying though about different cultures offering hospitality and kindness.One of the best ones I have discovered is on the Greek Islands when you are in a taverna and suddenly a tray of drinks are sent over to you by one of the locals. Ouzo, my word, that brings back some memories, smashing plates, and dancing on tables.. I must post one of my "OUZO Faces". Gawd it's awful. Tee hee....xxx
Squiffy the Otter from Can't cook, don't cook
It's great that you actually HAVE any memories, after drinking ouzo!
Flying Cat from Li'l ol' wine drinker me
I like cooking Otter!! [hmmm! something is missing? No, not kosher salt: I get it - a comma, perhaps?]. Dancing on tables, eh Squidgy? Hermit has not done it yet, but she is contemplating the possibility/possibilities.
mjc from NM,USA
I think that it's more than Hermit that is contemplating the possibility/possibilities mjc. I've got a fistful of 拢1 notes ready to tuck in, wherever it is they get tucked in on a belly-dancer???
Tws from RUDancing?
Would it catch on? Some of the bellies I've seen on Coll would take longer to stop than the rest of the body (not an insult I'm looking in a mirror!)
Not brave enough from watchingfromafar
Yours sounds ideal Notbravenough, bellydancers are not meant to be as shapely as Hermit!
Flying Cat from patting a plump rump
Hi Squidgy, It's nice to see that my people aren't alone in the kindness to strangers thing. They seem to think that random acts of kindness are the way forward, even if you are a little out of pocket sometimes. And here in NZ it isn't unusual to receive the same from strangers. People sometimes even smile at you even if they don't know you. And they talk on trains. My people think it's funny that it took them less time to get from London to NZ than it took from London to Coll (back when they had very little money and had to catch trains)! Say hi to Ming for me if you see him. Gordon
Gordon the Kiwi Mog from Upside-down place
If the belly shows nicely when wearing a virtual sari, it's just right for belly dancing. However, we would not want the belly to go overboard...
mjc from NM,USA
And Ming says hi to you too, Gordon. I assume Ming is feline, and, with a little luck, all porcelain. Wishful thinking probably and unfortunately. 'tis a tough world we live in.
mjc from NM,USA
Ming the Merciless on Coll was the cool cat who first attracted me to islandblogging, in the dark days before the Northern Isles could participate. He is also a very accomplished photographer and has been in a dark room with Nic...at last I think that's what she said...
Flying Cat from Ming Admiration Domain