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16 October 2014

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THE KINDNESS OF STRANGERS

Yesterday I was working in the front garden, it was pretty late in the afternoon, when I was approached by a stranger.

He was a young man with a workmen's belt around his waist.

An Electrician from the mainland. He looked totally lost.

First he went to the Post Office, which was closed, then he looked all around him in despair.

Finally he spied me working in the garden and walked towards me.

"Hi there" he said,

"Do you know if there is any place I can use my cash card to get money"

Well, I told him the Post Office closed at 1 pm and perhaps he could try the Coll Hotel.

Had he a cheque book? No,
Had he a Visa/Debit Card, ... No.

He just had a cash card which allowed him to draw money out of a machine.

Why did he need the money I enquired.

Well, he was Hungry. He had been working on the Dr's Surgery all day, wasn't familiar with islands and he had no cash to buy his dinner.

He was catching the 7.30 pm boat back to Oban and had no money for food on the boat either.

Well, I felt sorry for this young man, so far from home, alone, and unused to island life.

I offered to lend him some money so that he could at least get a square meal.

But how will I repay you? he asked

Just send me the money back when you get to the mainland I said.

The young man looked at me in amazement.

"I'm a stranger" he said, "and you would do that for a complete stranger".

"Yes" I replied.

Now you may think that that was naeive and foolish of me.

But I look at it this way.

1. If the boy takes the money, he gets a square meal, he has been shown kindness by a stranger on a tiny island he has never visited before.
He will feel good about the island.

2. If the boy returns the money to me as promised, my investment in human nature has paid dividends.
He will feel good about his honesty and keeping his word
I will feel good because he kept his word.

3. One day, my son may be in the same situation, far from home, hungry and alone. Perhaps a stranger will show him the same kindness.

4. If the boy does not return the money, then I will feel sadness, but who will be the loser?

The boy who took the money and did not return it as promised
Will he feel bad about it? untrustworthy and unable to look me in the eye if we should meet again.

or will I be the loser?

Certainly, my purse will have a hole in it, my faith in human nature dented a wee bit, but still I have the knowledge and comfort of the act of kindness.

So, out of the two, I know who would be the biggest loser?

Don't you?


Have a great weekend all, and wrap up warm !!

xxxxxx
Posted on xxxxxx at 11:06

Comments

I would have done exactly the same. The risk of losing a small amount of money isn't much compared to the benefit to everyone and their soul of giving someone the benefit of the doubt. Let us know if you get your money back! I'm sure you will. But it's best to do the right thing anyway.

Jill from EK


People think that we are nuts holidaying year in year out on a " pokey wee island ". Well you have just demonstrated one of many of the Coll " experiences" that we come to enjoy, good, old fashioned compassion.Good on you !

Gibby from Glasgow


Well, the children came running in this morning, all fresh faced and excited, "Look what's in the Oban Times" they cried. Yes, their story had been printed about the message in a bottle from an Argentinian Frigate. Sorry, this comment has nowt to do with my blog, I'll go now, I'm wittering on too much these days, like some demented old woman, right I'm orf. Ta-ra

Squidgy the Otter from Not on Page 3


Well done, the Otter! And I'll be very suprised if he doesn't repay you. This little SAGA reawakes my Honesty Box Blues ... must make it to Coll as I don't suppose the Honesty Box has an Internet bank a/c .. could you enquire?

Barney from Swithiod super Squidgey


However it pans out Squidgy, you are a winner. No doubt about it. This is what being human SHOULD be about. (Good grief, why would a cat say that??)

Flying Cat from furryhugs


That's very kind of you Squidgy, I've always thought very highly of you, and now that you have shown an act of extreme kindness to a young man, is there any chance you could see yer way to giving me a lend of 拢50, just until my luck changes, it's the Grand National tomorrow, and my wallet is empty. If 拢50 is too much, I'd possibly accept 拢40, but anything less, is no act of kindness. I'm really doing you a big favour, think how good you'll feel about yourself tomorrow, when I pick the winner, with your money. Cheery......

Tws from The Poor Hoose


How very kind of you. I hope that should my son ever be in that situation that he encounters someone as caring and generous as you.

alz from US


Oh what an atmosphere at Aintree. The Grand National tomorrow. I once went you know, years ago. It was freezing, but what a day. The jockeys in all their fine silks, the lovely Irish contingent, the guiness, Ah such memories. Wake up, wake up, TWS wants some money. Okay seeing as its you, its in the post to be first past the post. Back it each way, pick a horse with CLOUD in the name, and we will share the winnings. Thank you all for taking your time to comment. xxx

Squidgy the Otter from Backing a Winner


Me 'n' Marmers are wondering if we owe Tws royalties because (don't tell him) we have printed out a copy of one of his pomes and have it by the MagnifiMac.

FC&Marmers from copycats


Squidgy you are an example to us all!

IL from harris


Well done squidgy,however, 99.9% of the people of Coll would have done the same and not let the whole world know about it, its the kind of people they are.I know this for a fact, as I experienced it myself when my yacht was badly damaged in a storm in Coll a couple of years ago.

Sam "the yacht" from Crinan


Well, Saturday was Grand National Day, and I got an email from a dear friend, telling me to back Comply or Die, Did I comply? Not on your Nellie. Did it Win? eeeeerm yes. Ooops. Thank you all for your lovely comments, and Sam the Yacht, so very happy that you were helped by the people of Coll, and sorry for telling the world about kindness. I won't do it again. Honest.

Squidgy the Otter from Don't bet your life on it !!


Well, folks, we can comiserate with the generous otter that she didn't pick a winner, but I think its a bit of a relief to know that the otter is not #1 at everything she puts her paw to. In anaother context one would say she is human.

Barney from Swithiod a bit relieved


Oh help ma boab, that wee pussy'll get intae some bother if he diznae hand ower the "Nelson Eddies" tae Tws. Tak' this as a warning FC, we've goat yer paw-prints oan file here, so I'm watching ye....

PC Murdoch from The Polis Shop Stornoway


Okay, so I did not win on the gee-gees, but hey, listen up. Last week I announced to the world, yikes ! all about the Argentinian's message in a bottle. Well, today, we went back to the same beach and lo and behold we found another bottle. Only this time, there was no message in it, only PURE RED WINE. Yippeeeeeee. Now the cork is still intact, and it looks like a good bottle of Californian wine which I know (not from experience you understand) that they stock in the local Supermarket, that's the one on Tiree... so tonight whilst I am watching the long awaited demise of the evil Psychopath on Corrie (AKA David Platt), I will be "testing" the wine. I wonder if it will be okay. mmmm, Red wine gets me in a funny mood at the best of times. Better keep outta the way of PC Murdoch, he sounds a wee bitty strict, after poor puddycat like that. next he may come alooking for a squiffy otter.... Tee hee....xxx

Squidgy the Otter from You BET-ter believe this...


Good for you Squidgy. Interesting though how different people act in different ways, through personal idiosyncrasies or cultural determinants. I would have asked the person in to be fed (and I suspect many folks in the place I am going to in Southern Indiana would do the same). Then I would have given him the money for the meal on the boat (as well as some snacks and fruits). I would not have made it a loan or an advance. The unspecified understanding is that he would do the same later for someone else. I have been on the receiving end of so many kindnesses, in different countries, I would feel quite awful not to do a good turn from time to time.

mjc from NM,USA


silly me

didn't bet from theusualplace


One act of kindness ripples out I believe so good karma is bound to be headed your way Squidgy.

Carol from IBGood karma and all that Squidgy.HQ


mjc from NM, USA, have you tasted my cooking?? Have mercy on the poor boy !! Seriously though, I did think about inviting the young man in, but I was staining the fence and covered in creosote from head to foot. I do know what you are saying though about different cultures offering hospitality and kindness.One of the best ones I have discovered is on the Greek Islands when you are in a taverna and suddenly a tray of drinks are sent over to you by one of the locals. Ouzo, my word, that brings back some memories, smashing plates, and dancing on tables.. I must post one of my "OUZO Faces". Gawd it's awful. Tee hee....xxx

Squiffy the Otter from Can't cook, don't cook


It's great that you actually HAVE any memories, after drinking ouzo!

Flying Cat from Li'l ol' wine drinker me


I like cooking Otter!! [hmmm! something is missing? No, not kosher salt: I get it - a comma, perhaps?]. Dancing on tables, eh Squidgy? Hermit has not done it yet, but she is contemplating the possibility/possibilities.

mjc from NM,USA


I think that it's more than Hermit that is contemplating the possibility/possibilities mjc. I've got a fistful of 拢1 notes ready to tuck in, wherever it is they get tucked in on a belly-dancer???

Tws from RUDancing?


Would it catch on? Some of the bellies I've seen on Coll would take longer to stop than the rest of the body (not an insult I'm looking in a mirror!)

Not brave enough from watchingfromafar


Yours sounds ideal Notbravenough, bellydancers are not meant to be as shapely as Hermit!

Flying Cat from patting a plump rump


Hi Squidgy, It's nice to see that my people aren't alone in the kindness to strangers thing. They seem to think that random acts of kindness are the way forward, even if you are a little out of pocket sometimes. And here in NZ it isn't unusual to receive the same from strangers. People sometimes even smile at you even if they don't know you. And they talk on trains. My people think it's funny that it took them less time to get from London to NZ than it took from London to Coll (back when they had very little money and had to catch trains)! Say hi to Ming for me if you see him. Gordon

Gordon the Kiwi Mog from Upside-down place


If the belly shows nicely when wearing a virtual sari, it's just right for belly dancing. However, we would not want the belly to go overboard...

mjc from NM,USA


And Ming says hi to you too, Gordon. I assume Ming is feline, and, with a little luck, all porcelain. Wishful thinking probably and unfortunately. 'tis a tough world we live in.

mjc from NM,USA


Ming the Merciless on Coll was the cool cat who first attracted me to islandblogging, in the dark days before the Northern Isles could participate. He is also a very accomplished photographer and has been in a dark room with Nic...at last I think that's what she said...

Flying Cat from Ming Admiration Domain




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