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16 October 2014

Hermit Life


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I`m Still Here...Just...

Well...long story short...split up from a very long term relationship, had a few family problems (ongoing still) and for quite a while wasn`t even sure if I would have a roof over my head or not.
Now I have, and am `celebrating` by redecorating.
But it`s been a rough few months.
However, I`m getting there. Hate to sound like one of those bluddy awful feminist wifies ...(I am so far from being one!) but, life coping on my own isn`t as scary as I thought it would be, and I AM managing, though, well, made lots of mistakes and will no doubt make many more. But they`re liveable with.
Nothing lasts forever, not even acute stress, and one day you just wake up, realise you`re wading through it without going nuts (or, in my case, crazier than I am) and nothing has ground to a halt simply because you find paperwork hard to deal with or folks who were friends with both of you chose a side and it isn`t yours....
life goes on.
Damn good job n all. Or I`d be a ghost writing this. And that would be too creepy. Or maybe it would make for a half decent story...hmmm....

Posted on Hermit Life at 17:34

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Glad to see you back with us HL.

Carol from IBHQ


Hang in there, HL. Thinking of you - choose some good colours for the recdecorating!

Stromness Dragon from A supporting role


Sorry to hear your sad news HL: it is pure hell waking up and realising your on your own,ok in my case it was literally the case of "till death us do part" but slowly,sorry but slowly,but surely you see light at the end of the tunnel and things really do start to get better. the "friends "aren't real friends to choose sides. if u need a shoulder mail me through ibhq;keep smiling AND KEEP BLOGGINGxx

carol from over here


Thank You for sharing your personal journey.....it really hit home.

AJE from Naples, Florida


Hey big sis, is that you? I've been looking for ya! Sorry to hear about all the rough times you've been having...can I email you at your company?

Wee Sis from California


Keep ur chin up chuck! Its amazing how we realise our hidden strengths when things look black . You will come out of it a stronger person and the sun will shine again

Barebares from Shapinsay


Lovely to see you in print again, HL. We missed you. If you have lost 'friends' they probably wern't worth having anyway. All good wishes to you.

Trout magnet from soaking wet


(((hugs))) - good on you :)

IL from harris


Glad to see you again HL. Best wishes for this next page in your life and thaks for the pages you let us read as well. Take care.

Greg from USA


Glad to see you again HL. Best wishes for this next page in your life and thaks for the pages you let us read as well. Take care.

Greg from USA


I don't know your name or where you are, but I know that you're singing my song. And it is a true fact that nothing lasts forever When you get to the point that you begin to wonder what kind of person would rather spend time with "that other guy" than with splendid capable and brave you, your head will be above water. Best wishes, SA

Sue Allen from Texas, USA


Take good care of yourself, HL.

mjc from NM,USA


Even the darkest of nights gives way to the light!

Duncan from Brum


just read your blog - been to Aberdeen with son no 3 for a treat - so sorry to hear of the long term splitting up - know exactly how you (probably) feel - I always say to remember its a tunnel you're in - there is light at the other side, sometimes you just can't see it. its not a cave, its a tunnel and you will get through. your true friends are there for you, and always will. keep busy and don't look back.

scallowawife from in sympathy


it is funny though - we go through the same processes - we lose weight - we appear much happier and unhappier all at the same time, we take up new hobbies and rediscover ourselves. we lose and gain valuable friends, and generally come up smiling - cos we are better off. we question life and we do find answers.

scallowawife from following the vodaphone ad - make the most of now


you and me sound like kindred spirits judging by recent events in my own life. I agree with Scallowawife, things will get better, it's all part of life's adventure and don't let the buggers grind you down.

IA from south and west a bit


some of us are still friends with you both pet; don't worry about that! And if it gets a good story out of you.... :) I like the idea of a ghost writer ! Seriously though very pleased to see a blog! XXX ps check your emails.

GerCelt from Dublin, Ireland


More hugs from me too girl. Anything I can do, or anything I can help with, you know where I am.

Salty from Dublin


Do please check your emails girl, there are lots of friends here for you. Take care.

The Dream Catcher from Catapult Land


as the dream catcher say's"check you're e-mails!!!!!

carol from over here


I hope all your dreams come true HL, unless they involve myself being used as target practice, for your archery. Although, having seen past efforts of your Archery skills ( or otherwise) maybe the target is the safest place to be???

Tws from Any Dream Will Not Do


Still hanging in there, are you not, Hermit? Remember: things do usually get better. You are a fighter. You'll be alright. Chin up.

mjc from IN, USA


Just latched on to HL. Wish i'd found this one before. You have my sympathies. Mine was only a short term relationship but i'm still devastated. You could always come to Lewis...

Lonely In Lewis from Lewis




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