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What about those of us who have failed to find a partner, don't like the kinds of "going out" portrayed in the show (and / or have jobs which leave us with insufficient energy to do so), and have therefore ended up settling down alone through necessity?

Interesting program but based around young people...how about those of us 40+ singles, divorced maybe through no fault of our own and 'too old' to do the club/singles scene full of 20 somethings... So many of us, especially women..where are all the 40+ single men going too??..Out with the 20something women..lol..there's definitely a program to be made about us..I'll host it :-)

I agree with #1 #2 at 39 and single I can empathise, there's another series to be had about those in that situation, but perhaps we are too old for 91Èȱ¬3!

The concept of the show was great. It does seem a question that everybody is asking themselves. "Would I be happier with or without a partner?" I am 233 engaged and only ever slept with my fiancee. I'm over the moon with the relationship itself but I keep getting the annoying feeling that I "missed out" by not sleeping with other women. At the end of the day if you're happy with what your doing at this moment in your life stick with it. If you're not do something about it...

What the programme showed was what is "in". No doubt the people involved are also influenced by the internet porn. Completely irresponsible behaviour. I wonder if anyone has done a serious professional job, like science or engineering. From Thermodynamics the concept of Entropy would definitely apply in this context: look it up if you do not know. Chaos will continue to increase. Cheap TV aimed gaining ratings.

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I signed up to BBc had to hunt down this blog because your facebook seems to be a ghost to say this. WHAT.THE.HELL.MAN. Sex, Impotence, Laughing Gas, Diet Pills and Legal Highs aren't addicting what so ever. I have taken 40x strength salvia and I'm not addicted. Seriously the main issue that you have completely just walked by is this. Everyone is an addict to something, legal and not legal. The difference is that addicts have weak will power and can't even sustain stability in reality what so ever. You can tell what they are addicted to from drinking on a Wednesday at 1 in the afternoon to snorting MDMA mixed with Ketamine at 8 in the morning after doing it the entire night before whilst playing C.O.D. These people will never blame nor even acknowledge their self affliction and laziness to committing to even the simplest tasks without their so called high or euphoria because it comforts them from the strain of reality and the real world. These people are the worst of addicts that you should be documenting about not people who smoke salvia and need a pill to get a hard on. There are also addicts who acknowledge their addiction and try to create their own stability in their own path that does not do damage or let it affect their loved ones in anyway or bring harm to themselves. These people at least commend for at least saying *You know what i'm going to stop this for a period of time. Sober myself up and find employment regardless of what I have to do. So me and I alone can earn and burn, hit, light, snort, drink, pop and sniff. My money on a hoobie or recreational activity that at the end of the day. In the Morning go to work sober and in control, finish work and sorted out any other major priorities. I can sit down and light this joint and relax.* These people are grouped in with everyone else and brought down due to the reputation of weak willed drug addicts who have done collateral damage to everyone else whilst bringing down themselves with disappointment, shame, recklessness and stupidity. So please next time find the real addicts sitting in playgrounds on benches, or hiding in car parks snorting up and lighting up bongs and ask them if they are an addict because I bet the first thing they will say is. *NO*.

Hi, I watched the show tonight and was really interested in the story about Stevie. I have lived with the same problem for a few years now and have tried many different ways to overcome this! The doctor has tried a few different things, some that done nothing and others that made me violently sick.. After trying Viagra it changed a little as this was the only thing that worked! but I still had to get over the fact I had to pop a pill and prolong foreplay until it kicked in. Most of the time it gave me a little headache and my heart felt like it was beating out of my chest, but it worked! I've now been told I can't have this medication as I don't meet the criteria and have to get it on a private prescription which is £35 for 4 tablets. Now I'm stuck in deciding what to do! I can't afford that amount of money on a long term basis as you could possibly use that amount in a week and its not easy meeting people because it has a massive knock on your confidence, you have to explain yourself every time you meet someone and usually get a harsh response! I'm almost sure my problem is a mental issue rather than a medical one as I can do the normal things when I'm on my own but just can't any other time!! Can anyone put me in touch with a hypnotherapist that has dealt with this before. I'm in the southeast so if there is someone close to here that would be great :) thank you.Ìý

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Alfie! I hope you see this.
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Hey guys, I'm not too sure how to contact you from here as your email details have been removed.. If there is any other way to contact you that would be great @Betty @Vy thank you :)

I totally get stevies story and have struggled with erectile dysfunction for years and years. I eventually came to my docs in tears and got viagra. My relationship with my GF was at breaking point at that time due to the problem. It puts a lot of pressure on the other half in a relationship and can lead to them feeling insecure. I tried the NHS route. Had the sexual health MOT. Had a chat with a GUI doc with my GF present. But tbh, the purely medical treatment does not deal with real problem. And Cherry you are AMAZING for helping stevie. I am so happy for him and thankful for people like you. Maybe I can break my 9 yrs of solitude and cycle of cannabis dependency and actually start living now I've seen that this thing can be beaten. So good to know you're not the only one, thank you thank you!!!

I really enjoy your shows and a topic i would really like to see you oppinion on would be breast enhancing products ie. creams, supplments, surgery or even just push up bra's. I think its a subject alot of girls/women have issues with through out are lives.

does anyone know what the exact pills were which were tested by the couple in that segment of this program?? I presume they were from Ann Summers or somewhere, but as they seemed to work for them, it wld be good to know to try them! :-) thanks.

Hei Eye-of-the-beholder!
I saw your comment and know about something that worked for me although I did not actually want bigger breasts. I was prescribed Amitriptylene (I think that is how it is spelled) for nerve pain. I was a large size 32A and after a year or two I was 34 double D.

The side effect of this drug is breast enhancement and it happens in both men and women. I have seen men with enlarged breast as a result of this drug.

I took one tablet a day of 10 mg (you can get much stronger than this) and after a year my breasts had changed a lot.

This could be a solution but I would strongly advice you to not be on this drug for very long. A lot of people on the net consider this drug as "rat poison". it helped my nerve pain so I was happy with it and it was easy to stop taking it as well for me, but we are all different.

I would personally rather take this drug for breast enhancement than having plastic surgery. My breasts are natural looking and I have not lost a bit after I stopped taking the drug 2 years ago. So it is worth a shot I think.

I also agree with that this would be a very good topic and the same goes for all the others mentioned on this page. Cherry is pure brilliant and I just love her series! Thumbs Up! If anyone wants to contact me then that is fine by me but think this is up to the moderators. So ask them. Thanks!

Cherry is such a lovely person to front a personal programme such as this, able to both invest herself in any even everyday topic as well as make it interesting and fresh and engage anyone she meets in a such a natural, approachable, yet extremely intelligent way. Would be lovely to see more from her.