Welcome to the Parents' Toolkit
By Matt Burton, (aka Mr Burton) secondary school headteacher
If you鈥檇 told teachers at the start of 2020 that they鈥檇 spend months and months working from home and helping with their own children鈥檚 learning whilst teaching their classes through a millimetre wide webcam, they鈥檇 have thought you鈥檇 been on the wind up. There would have to be 鈥榰nprecedented鈥 circumstances for those sorts of things to happen.
And, of course, they were unprecedented. They still are. We鈥檙e all hoping that when term starts, schools will be operating in a way that we recognise from pre-pandemic times 鈥 and that students can learn, teachers can teach, and everyone can hit the ground running. The fact it鈥檒l be the first 鈥榬egular鈥 start to a school year in almost a thousand days feels strangely exciting鈥ut it is, of course, unprecedented (and that, I promise, will be the final time I use that word).
It鈥檒l be easier for some than for others. Some will slide back in with ease, whereas others will struggle to adapt to things. Can we wave a magic wand and get everyone to slip into school in September like a swan gliding through water? Unfortunately not. But remember - when we see a swan exuding a calm, purposeful authority鈥ts legs are manically flapping around under the surface. We all have worries 鈥 and that鈥檚 fine 鈥 so use the tips below to move that swan forward鈥
Know what鈥檚 coming
You鈥檒l know all about bubbles, one-way systems, staggered starts, finishes and breaks. You鈥檒l have had letter after letter about face masks, hand gel, sanitiser, testing and permissions. Schools have navigated a bumpy road for 18 months and will still have much to do.
Your very first port of call should be to try to access the school website. Read every letter and note down the important things. Do you need to give permission for testing in September? Do you know when and where your child should be returning? What are they planning on doing with classrooms, face masks, bubbles and zones? Knowledge is power鈥o go and get charged up!
If you aren't sure - ask!
Schools will do whatever they can to let parents know exactly what鈥檚 coming. But that doesn鈥檛 mean that every question you have will be answered. You might have concerns about your child鈥檚 mental health, you might think your child hasn鈥檛 understood what their school is putting in place for the new academic year, or you might not be crystal clear on what鈥檚 coming in September yourself. Please don鈥檛 suffer in silence! Get on the phone, send an email or a letter and find out what鈥檚 going on. People want to help but can鈥檛 if they don鈥檛 know what help you need!
Testing, testing, 1, 2, 3鈥
Testing is an important part of stopping the spread of COVID-19 when people don鈥檛 know that they have it. Schools are well versed in converting Sports Halls to testing centres following the return to classrooms in March. In , children in secondary schools will be asked to do three rapid tests (one before they go back into classrooms and then two within a few days of that) at the start of term. After that, testing should be done in the home again (the same as last year). Other nations have different policies. See here for and
Exams
After two years of CAGs and TAGs (centre assessed grades and teacher assessed grades), exams will be back in 2022! Schools and teachers everywhere have planned and planned, then re-planned and re-planned, to navigate the changing landscape of the last two years鈥ut schools are entering the new academic year expecting that exams will be happening (with changes to some - to reflect the fact that so much time has been spent away from face-to-face lessons). As schools get more and more information, they鈥檒l get this out to you鈥nd, as ever, keep in touch if you have specific concerns.
What can I do to help?
I鈥檝e said before that 鈥榯he greatest plan in the world relies on people doing their part鈥. Knowing what鈥檚 expected of your children when they go back is really important, but it鈥檚 also important that they know what鈥檚 expected, too. Their final memories of school from last year may have included bubbles, zones and face coverings, and the changes will take some getting used to. Talk to your child about what鈥檚 to come, what will change and how it鈥檚 okay to feel a bit weirded out by the world (and a huge part of their world is school).
One thing that schools do want to get on with, without question, is getting children back learning in their normal routines. Today鈥檚 鈥榥ormal鈥 is different to the one from February 2020 鈥 there鈥檚 no question about that 鈥 but every person, in every school, in every corner of the country wants to create a positive climate in which children can learn, grow, catch up with any lost learning (for those who have missed periods), and they want to get everyone roaring down the road to success.
Let鈥檚 come back together and have a catch up in a year鈥檚 time, shall we? Let鈥檚 hope we鈥檙e feeling more settled and ready for a more usual back to school experience.
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